Blog: From Quarantine to (Porn)Stardom

[2000cc~N~Texas]

WHAT HAPPENS IF THE PRESSURE GETS TO ME AND I END UP WITH PERFORMANCE ANXIETY?

Men, you need to be aware that this can and WILL happen to you eventually, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. Performance anxiety is usually linked to a man’s need to protect his partner. This doesn’t mean she is in danger, it just means you are more concerned with making sure she is enjoying herself and not feeling uncomfortable or pressured. When this happens, casually redirect yourself over to your wife/girlfriend and focus on only her for a few minutes and with her showing of passion to you, before you know it…..Mercury Rising! This works like a charm and that reassurance will free your mind to start focusing on the entire room and not just on her safety.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

HOW MUCH KISSING IS THERE? IS THAT A NO-NO?

EXPONENTIAL AMOUNTS OF KISSING (especially if there are 2 girls)!!!! I am the type of girl that has to have my mouth full. Give me a dick, a pussy,a nipple, or, if all else fails, a tongue! Remember, your focus should be where your mouth is at. If you're going down on another woman, don’t worry about that dick inside of you, worry about making that pussy cum. No man has ever complained and said “That girl’s ass was too boring.”, but they will say “She does not give good blowjobs” or “She doesn’t know how to go down on a woman”. The same thing goes for kissing. If you are a passionate kisser, it solves all problems. Our first sexual experience was a kiss, so our mind will always go back to associating that kiss with lust and desire .

All that said, as mentioned before, a fair amount of women have rules against kissing. Obviously discuss this beforehand and follow this rule, if you proceed, but keep in mind that it usually only refers to mouth-to-mouth kissing. Use your mouth everywhere else and you'll be just fine.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

THIS MIGHT SOUND STUPID, BUT WHAT DO I DO IF THE OTHER GUY IS BIGGER THAN ME?

Yep, that sounds stupid! - Not the question, but that some women will actually tell you that it matters. It doesn’t matter in the least. As women, we know three things, down there:

1. That Hurts!
2. I don’t feel anything!
3. That feels great!

I’ve had every size you can think of and some feel good and others don’t…..depends on the day, depends on the time. To say that “bigger dicks, feel me up or stretch me out” would also mean that the gynecologist's speculum should thrust me into instant orgasm, but gross…. It does not! It all comes down to reading your partner and women having the desire to accept him. Do not worry about size. We don’t care. If all else fails, we will do the moving. If we can get off by dry humping a pillow, any dick will do!

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

WHILE WE’RE IN IT, HOW DO I MAKE SURE EVERYONE IS HAPPY?

YOU DON’T! You focus on your own pussy. Every man will tell you that when a woman wants to cum and suddenly takes over, it becomes the greatest night of their lives! Focus on cumming. What a waste it would be to double or triple the stimuli and achieve no orgasm.

As far as keeping everyone involved, remember that (if you’re a woman) you have a mouth, two hands, an ass, a pussy, and two boobs. If any of those are not being used, find something to do with them and everybody wins!

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

IS THERE ANY PARTICULAR ORDER IN WHICH YOU SHOULD DO THINGS?

Good Question! Yes and No. While there are no “Hard and Fast Rules”, In LS life, women run the show. Usually the women will get things started and single the men when to join in. After this, some scientific reasoning really helps out. It is a good idea for the women to go down on the men before the men go down on the women. This limits the continuous stimuli that the male “member” is experiencing. Spacing out the attention ratio will lead to a much longer and more eventful experience. When ending, I have a rule that I get the cum….I know, psycho, right, but that’s my reward for a job well done. I then proceed (if the other woman allows) to cumswap and make out with the other woman for 15-20 minutes. This gives the guy the chance to recover ( if there is to be a round 2) or makes for the greatest ending for visual purposes.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

WHAT DO I DO WHEN THE OTHER TWO ARE DOING STUFF WITH EACH OTHER?

Unless it is your choice not to, always be involved. If you are a man in an MFM, position yourself so the woman can reach out to you and grab what she wants. Otherwise, it is always safe to remember that women love emotion, feeling, and desire . Kiss her neck, nibble on her ear, whisper dirty talk…..she will want you involved, don’t worry.

If you are a woman in a MFF, your job is easy….FOCUS ON THE WOMAN. There is nothing your man wants more than to take home a visual memory of you feeling, licking, and kissing all over another woman.

The worst thing you can do is bow out. Nobody wants that and it will ruin the experience for everyone. Be present and you’ll be drawn in.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

WHAT HAPPENS IF SOMEONE CROSSES A BOUNDARY SET IN OUR PRE-THREESOME DISCUSSION?

ABORT and kick their asses to the curb! Breaking your previously discussed rules in not getting lost in desire , it is tantamount to rape! LS relationships depend on a level of trust that few relationships ever experience. Remember, If that couple wanted you, so will the next. Don’t compromise your comfort for anyone.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

WHAT ABOUT IF I THINK OF SOMETHING I WANT TO TRY IN THE MOMENT THAT WE DIDN’T DISCUSS BEFOREHAND?

Asking is certainly better than just doing. That said, I would not ask. I would give the best performance possible and ensure a second visit. Then you can discuss altering the rules. Again, don’t jeopardize a friendship by violating trust. Trust is more powerful for an LS couple than their lust is, for you!

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

In a gangbang, do you prefer to let the men dominate you, or are you in charge?

The woman is ALWAYS in charge, but when all know I am in charge, I give them permission to dominate me. Lol The excitement in gangbangs is the feeling of helplessness and total submission. You are usually safer in an organized gangbang than at any other time. Most of those men will be grateful for the opportunity and will respect your boundaries. However, if one man pushes those boundaries every other man in that room will see that he is never a problem again. Know your party’s members and let yourself go!

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

Should toys be used, like strapons?

Toys are great to use in an MFF threesome. Strapons add all new layers to the fun. Finding them at TTR is not so easy. Some are brave enough to bring them. Most are not. Airport security has been known to confiscate, or “lose” these items. In general, toys are a great tool for a threesome, but like with all things, it should be discussed, beforehand.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

Should we stay overnight, or just leave afterward?

Personally, I think overnight stays are fine, but they very rarely happen. I would not plan on staying. This gives the couples the opportunity to privately discuss the evening and decide on which path they take, moving forward. Don’t worry, if it was great, they will be back….if not…..next!

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

WHAT ABOUT ANAL?

You all know me and know my answer! YES!!!! OBVIOUSLY!!! However, this is an absolute "Must Discuss" topic. Most women are still not into anal. You will not, often, find a couple that gives the green light on anal. All couples need time to adjust and open up. Anal can sometimes be too intimidating to a woman and prevent her from relaxing and feeling the passion that the other couple is trying to share. Never be disappointed, if anal is not an option….it’s truly, not needed. Just be elated if they say yes!

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

WHERE DO I FINISH?

Another great question! This is another “Must Discuss” topic. Not all women like to swallow or even taste cum. Additionally, some guys will “lose their shit” if they get hit by friendly fire! Lol This should never be a deal breaker. It is far more important to GET to cum, than WHERE you get to cum. Just talk it out. This one will be a simple compromise.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

How does it end?

As stated before, I like to end with 15-20 minutes of cumswapping and making out. It doesn’t need to be that long, but I would advise against running for the door. Take your time and reaffirm your comfort level with the other partners. Respect is key and you should appreciate the opportunity that someone shared with you, even if it was not an instant connection.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

Until tomorrow.......Stay Slutty, My Friends!

 

[Waitresscocktail]

Wow! You are so good at making learning fun! You should be a teacher! Wait, would high school boys get any work done with your boobs standing in front of them? On second thought, maybe you shouldn't. Lol

 

[peer]

How does it end?

As stated before, I like to end with 15-20 minutes of cumswapping and making out. It doesn’t need to be that long, but I would advise against running for the door. Take your time and reaffirm your comfort level with the other partners. Respect is key and you should appreciate the opportunity that someone shared with you, even if it was not an instant connection.

How to prevent dilution when snowballing for 30 mins??

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

How to prevent dilution when snowballing for 30 mins??

Semen is very proteinaceous, i.e. it is full of relatively large protein molecules which tend to make liquids slimy and viscous. Another example is mucus/snot. These large molecules don't readily separate from one another and dissolve in the water in a short time, whereas smaller molecules (e.g. sugars, salts) generally do so easily. The added saliva dilutes its concentration but trust me..... it is still noticable in texture and taste.

 

[Foursfun4444]

WHERE DO I FINISH?
Additionally, some guys will “lose their shit” if they get hit by friendly fire! Lol

Friendly fire!
I was told that as long as our balls don't touch... We'll, you know.

 

[CarlosyMaria07]

As always, Tiffany, you are a wealth of information. Excellent thread!

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

Thank you, CarlosyMaria07. I appreciate you kind comment. I only hope it proves as helpful as some of the other posts! Just trying to do my part to help!

 

[Deleted member 10871]

Should we stay overnight, or just leave afterward?

Personally, I think overnight stays are fine, but they very rarely happen. I would not plan on staying. This gives the couples the opportunity to privately discuss the evening and decide on which path they take, moving forward. Don’t worry, if it was great, they will be back….if not…..next!

This....One of our best experiences so far has been a sleepover. The key was communication ahead of time. We had actually planned on getting a hotel, but they invited to stay at their house. Our only stipulation was that we needed a separate room after play was done for the night. However if that conversation doesn’t happen before hand, we would always expect to eventually leave.

 

[Boobietrap2]

Reading your posts led me to masturbate at 9:00 in the morning. I wish I could say this conflicts with my normal schedule, but nah - since joining this site it's a common occurrence. Hehe

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

Happy I could help!

 

[ElliotandMichelle]

Wow, Tiffany, you're the best! Keep up the good work! We just love reading your advice, together! You need your own TV show. Always entertaining!

 

[Foursfun4444]

Wow, Tiffany, you're the best! Keep up the good work! We just love reading your advice, together! You need your own TV show. Always entertaining!

I was thinking this was a pretty good start for a book. Or at least a pamphlet. Podcast maybe? Idk

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

I was thinking this was a pretty good start for a book. Or at least a pamphlet. Podcast maybe? Idk

Wait, are you just trying to "butter me up"? OK, OK, OK.....I'll fuck you guys, let's set it up! Just kidding....lol.....But this is a great start and you guys look pretty damn good, to me! Sooo.....who knows?!? Thank you for the love and the compliment. You are greatly appreciated!

 

[Waitresscocktail]

I was a huge fan of your writing and have studied your sex advice more diligently than I studied for the SAT exam. You seemed larger than life, almost a demigod. Haha. Now that I was lucky enough to have had sex with you (in the blind crawl), its ALL TRUE. You did things to me while blindfolded that men with full use of their eyes have never been able to do. I must admit that I have not stayed very quiet. I've told about 20 people that I have had sex with a pornstar!!!! Lol. Thank you, again.

Oh, and even without the fake eyelashes and loads of make-up I was able to recognize you right away. Absolutely beautiful.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

Thank you for participating! It was a pleasure to fuck you!........I mean, "meet" you.

 

[B&S]

wow...i must say you have quite a fan club here. I love your sexy attitude and confidence...and from your pics on this site, you are incredibly hot.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

wow...i must say you have quite a fan club here. I love your sexy attitude and confidence...and from your pics on this site, you are incredibly hot.

Thank you very much! In more ways than one, I'm a very lucky girl!

 

[rockinl]

Thank you very much! In more ways than one, I'm a very lucky girl!

Ok, who are you, and why is it a secret? I mean, pornstars arent exactly "covert". LOL

 

[Jandm0128]

We have been huge fans of Tiffany for months now, you might even say we are her number one groupies! We were lucky enough to meet her & Mike last week and can’t stop talking about them! (And thinking about them ) have you ever met anyone and felt like you’ve known them forever?? That’s how we felt instantly! They are beyond sexy, super smart and just the best!! We can not wait to see them again!!!

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

Ok, who are you, and why is it a secret? I mean, pornstars arent exactly "covert". LOL

No, pornstars, in their line of work, "are not necessarily covert", but they very likely want to be, while on vacation!
Admittedly, far too many already know a screen name. I have no interests in making an already difficult situation, more challenging and less relaxing for myself and my husband. You are more than welcome to hate what I do or love it, but I just ask that I my privacy be respected in what little ways still remain.

 

[ElliotandMichelle]

No, pornstars, in their line of work, "are not necessarily covert", but they very likely want to be, while on vacation!
Admittedly, far too many already know a screen name. I have no interests in making an already difficult situation, more challenging and less relaxing for myself and my husband. You are more than welcome to hate what I do or love it, but I just ask that I my privacy be respected in what little ways still remain.

On one of their final nights there, we were talking to Tiffany and her husband when the sweetest lady came up to Tiffany and and stated jumping around like a school girls saying, "I can't believe you are actually here! You're my grandson's favorite pornstar. He just turned 18. He would be so excited if I could take your picture!, etc....." Tiffany was so nice and sweet. She posed for the picture and had a long conversation with the lady. I can see how that could be bothersome on a vacation, but Tiffany was as sweet as could be.

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

On one of their final nights there, we were talking to Tiffany and her husband when the sweetest lady came up to Tiffany and and stated jumping around like a school girls saying, "I can't believe you are actually here! You're my grandson's favorite pornstar. He just turned 18. He would be so excited if I could take your picture!, etc....." Tiffany was so nice and sweet. She posed for the picture and had a long conversation with the lady. I can see how that could be bothersome on a vacation, but Tiffany was as sweet as could be.

Yes, she was a dear! I believe she was with ricolaur? Also, a complete gentleman, in his own right.

 

[tw1mempho]

glad to see your vacation was great... still waiting for the final trip report... lol

 

[2000cc~N~Texas]

We have been huge fans of Tiffany for months now, you might even say we are her number one groupies! We were lucky enough to meet her & Mike last week and can’t stop talking about them! (And thinking about them ) have you ever met anyone and felt like you’ve known them forever?? That’s how we felt instantly! They are beyond sexy, super smart and just the best!! We can not wait to see them again!!!

We feel exactly the same! Almost a week, already. Ugh. I used my boobs to try and get the pilot to take us to NY instead of TX, but it didn't work. I guess they have lost their power! Lol

 

[JGWentworth]

OK so she can write and get us all excited but does anyone else think she is too good to be true? I mean has anyone actually met her? I have liked her pics and posts but can't help but think "butter face". Maybe I'm wrong, but smart, hot, and cute don't go together.

 

[MarkHolly]

OK so she can write and get us all excited but does anyone else think she is too good to be true? I mean has anyone actually met her? I have liked her pics and posts but can't help but think "butter face". Maybe I'm wrong, but smart, hot, and cute don't go together.

Dude seriously? Your first post and you waste it with this ridiculously stupid and utter trash remark?