- Apr 17, 2020
Pick the couple you like or single. But have fun with who ever. It’s your vacation girl!I guess I better clarify my latest post. I'm getting several messages of concern. Thank you, BTW. You are all so wonderful.
As one of you so aptly pointed out, the sadness or slight depression comes from being a people pleaser. I get that so many people want to meet and chat but, honestly, I just can't get around to everyone. I hear the comments: "Why did she choose that couple and not us?" "She spent all afternoon talking to them but only 5 minutes talking to us". "She ignores me on the site and she is doing the same here". She must not be attracted to us because she didn't invite us back to her room."
All of these are hurtful, not because my feelings are sensitive but because I hate that you feel that way. I truly wish I could partial out all of my time evenly but it's difficult. I get stopped when I go for a drink, when I go to the restroom, when I walk to my room. I love that, but I have very little say over it. Finally, many of you think (falsely) that I can just point at a couple and they're mine. Totally not true, but I know I'm a bit intimidating and for that reason, I don't try to force myself on anyone. When we pick a single, couple, or group, we usually start with whomever expressed interest. We don't really consider people who don't ask. I try and be fair but learned early on that you can't please everyone. I am happy to have learned how to cope with it, but am even happier that failing to please everyone still bothers me.
Enough of that! New day, let's play!