Exhibitionist side...how easy is it to find couples for same room sex only at TTR?

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The GF and I are coming in July (Coronavirus willing) and have an exhibitionist side to us.
We aren't in the lifestyle together, but have talked about pushing our boundaries a bit while there.
How easy would it be to find couples interested in same room sex only while we're there, with no further expectations?
We haven't done this together in the past, but always get a rush at the nude beach, or when we know someone's watching us if we leave the curtains open, and have had sex with another couple on webcam which was a thrill to us. We figured this would probably be the perfect setting to take it to the next level.
She is worried that another couple might be pushy about doing more than just watching which would make her uncomfortable and ruin the experience for her. I don't want that.
We've discussed it together, and she loves the idea of same room sex, but isn't certain she wants to go any further. I've left the ball in her court. If she wants to take it further, we can. If she gets cold feet, that's fine too. I just don't want any pressure from another couple. Is this reasonable?
We've agreed that if we did add anyone else, we would start with MFM before a couple, so we don't want a full swap just yet.
My ex and I used to swap/play with a couple we were friends with, but I've never done it with strangers so I'm pretty oblivious to the scene and what to expect.
Thanks for any advice and information.
 

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The simple answer is it depends on how comfortable you both are, asking couples that in person when you get there. I'm sure you can find couples there all the time that are down with that or anything else for that matter. But it depends on how many at bats you give it.
 

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Have you thought about going to Desire ?

The beds around the hot tub are for sex. You will be free to do whatever you want in full view of everyone at the hot tub and hot tub bar, as other couple do. There are 5 or 6 beds next to each other. Also, you are free to have relations on the palapa at the beach. Again, in full view of everyone around.

It is wonderful place for an exhibitionist.
 

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The GF and I are coming in July (Coronavirus willing) and have an exhibitionist side to us.
We aren't in the lifestyle together, but have talked about pushing our boundaries a bit while there.
How easy would it be to find couples interested in same room sex only while we're there, with no further expectations?
We haven't done this together in the past, but always get a rush at the nude beach, or when we know someone's watching us if we leave the curtains open, and have had sex with another couple on webcam which was a thrill to us. We figured this would probably be the perfect setting to take it to the next level.
She is worried that another couple might be pushy about doing more than just watching which would make her uncomfortable and ruin the experience for her. I don't want that.
We've discussed it together, and she loves the idea of same room sex, but isn't certain she wants to go any further. I've left the ball in her court. If she wants to take it further, we can. If she gets cold feet, that's fine too. I just don't want any pressure from another couple. Is this reasonable?
We've agreed that if we did add anyone else, we would start with MFM before a couple, so we don't want a full swap just yet.
My ex and I used to swap/play with a couple we were friends with, but I've never done it with strangers so I'm pretty oblivious to the scene and what to expect.
Thanks for any advice and information.
You guys will find a lot of like minded couple. We were first timers in March. And pretty much had the same mind set as you guys. There is no pressure from any couples we met. Everyone made use fill extremely comfortable. And if you girl friend is like my wife she will doing things by the second night that she said she would never do lol!! But honestly don’t worry about it and just oil it you will never regret it. Take care
 

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You guys will find a lot of like minded couple. We were first timers in March. And pretty much had the same mind set as you guys. There is no pressure from any couples we met. Everyone made use fill extremely comfortable. And if you girl friend is like my wife she will doing things by the second night that she said she would never do lol!! But honestly don’t worry about it and just oil it you will never regret it. Take care
Book it not oil it. DAM AUTO CORRECT!!
 
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You guys will find a lot of like minded couple. We were first timers in March. And pretty much had the same mind set as you guys. There is no pressure from any couples we met. Everyone made use fill extremely comfortable. And if you girl friend is like my wife she will doing things by the second night that she said she would never do lol!! But honestly don’t worry about it and just oil it you will never regret it. Take care
Good to know! Thank you!

Have you thought about going to Desire ?

The beds around the hot tub are for sex. You will be free to do whatever you want in full view of everyone at the hot tub and hot tub bar, as other couple do. There are 5 or 6 beds next to each other. Also, you are free to have relations on the palapa at the beach. Again, in full view of everyone around.

It is wonderful place for an exhibitionist.
We have looked at it, but I think for this trip we want the party atmosphere of Temptation . Plus, the price is better which is also a plus. Will take another look at Desire though, as both look great.
 

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At ttr it’s a good chance to find what you want. But it’s not a desire or hedonism where that’s the main point of going per say. We’ve done ttr twice and it wasn’t hard. But both times we have gone 7 nights and think we learned this last time that it’s to much and will probably start splitting days somewhere else
 
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At ttr it’s a good chance to find what you want. But it’s not a desire or hedonism where that’s the main point of going per say. We’ve done ttr twice and it wasn’t hard. But both times we have gone 7 nights and think we learned this last time that it’s to much and will probably start splitting days somewhere else
I can see where a week might end up taking a toll from what I've heard. We are only going 3 nights so we'll surely be able to handle it.
We'll try to go in without expectations other than to let loose and have a good time. If we just have a fun vacation and enjoy each other, then that's a win in my book. If we end up finding a couple for same room sex or the perfect guy for MFM sex, then that'll just be icing on the cake.
 

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I can see where a week might end up taking a toll from what I've heard. We are only going 3 nights so we'll surely be able to handle it.
We'll try to go in without expectations other than to let loose and have a good time. If we just have a fun vacation and enjoy each other, then that's a win in my book. If we end up finding a couple for same room sex or the perfect guy for MFM sex, then that'll just be icing on the cake.
7 nights of it gets tiring kind of to tbh. But then again at least to me the all inclusive model kind of gets old. Wake up, pool, dinner, drinks rinse wash repeat

think 5 nights would
Be about perfext
 
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7 nights of it gets tiring kind of to tbh. But then again at least to me the all inclusive model kind of gets old. Wake up, pool, dinner, drinks rinse wash repeat

think 5 nights would
Be about perfext
We've done a week at a regular all inclusive once, just a plain, vanilla, family type place once. Even that was too much drinking and eating for us. A place like Temptation would probably kill us after a week.
I could, of course, eat and drink less....but I don't know if I like that option.
 
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By our 6th night we both were done.. we drink hard and are relatively young with high tolerance. Ended up getting room service watching non-porn movies all night.
 

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We've done a week at a regular all inclusive once, just a plain, vanilla, family type place once. Even that was too much drinking and eating for us. A place like Temptation would probably kill us after a week.
I could, of course, eat and drink less....but I don't know if I like that option.
That’s kind of what I was saying the inclusive model of pool drink eat repeat gets hard to keep doing.
we were over ttr about day 5-6 last time. Thinking next time we will do just 5 days. Or do like 3 at ttr and 3 somewhere else
 
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