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2000cc~N~Texas

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Well, as is the case any year, you see couples pretending, and this year is no exception. We arrived, today, for our 5th trip to TTR . I wish I could say I was surprised, but, saddened in more like it, to see fewer than 40% of the females were topless. The resort has never claimed to be a swinger resort but it is painfully evident that they are losing their appeal to the LS crowd. What pains me more is the dishonesty or (assuming the best) the wishful but unrealistic thinking by some (only some) "site members". Site member was in quotes because a person who owns an account but contributes little to nothing is not what most of us think of when we think of CS. Over the past 2 months, I have been bombarded by daily (literally over 100 per day) messages on here or on KIK from 13 different members who all claimed to be staying at ttr during this stay. Of those 13, I believe only 6 are really here.

What pains me the most is the two months of patience I showed to one particular couple that turned out to be as fraudulent and one could be. There are many great members on this site who go out of their way to help aspiring LS community members. We give of our freetime....our family time because of a memory we have of starting out. When this courtesy is abused, it hurts us all. If you ask someone for their time, please be respectful enough to be honest with them. This community can only succeed when we can count on one another.
 

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We witnessed a change in the clientele in June. Prices are low and a different crowd is coming in. Our hope is that the resort is trying to recoup lost money from the pandemic and once they have a better bottom line, prices will return to normal. We will then start seeing the usual groups of people we're used and people can go back to complaining about the prices. ;)
 

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The climate changed from 2013 to 2018 when we went and it came with the rebuild. Place was never a LS resort but lended more to it. The resort is going to the younger crowd who is their future right or wrong. What I have also noticed the younger LS crowd also seems to be a little less flamboyant.
This site is ok and we keep it for whatever reason. But tbh we stopped with all the internet apps/forums etc three years ago and haven’t looked back. Big waste of time all of that stuff. Been through it all and we figured to cut it all out and stop being butthurt about it. We have our normals and when traveling it usually not hard to find what we wan
 

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We witnessed a change in the clientele in June. Prices are low and a different crowd is coming in. Our hope is that the resort is trying to recoup lost money from the pandemic and once they have a better bottom line, prices will return to normal. We will then start seeing the usual groups of people we're used and people can go back to complaining about the prices. ;)
Thing is I just looked and what they are charging is about what it was three years ago. I know when they reopened after the rebuild they had stupid prices like 4-5k a week that didn’t last long. Reality is the resort to include amenities, food, etc is about a three star maybe 4 if your lucky. It’s nice but not that nice. So your really paying for the experience which the resort isn’t providing the guest are and I’m not sure they’re worth more than what they are charging.
 
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It’s frustrating for sure, we stopped planning with people who claimed to be there at the same time, we just go with the flow now.

This seems like a wise approach. Last year was our first trip to TTR and we learned our lesson on planning too much out in advance or putting all of our eggs in one basket. My wife ended up talking with someone daily for months, I ended up talking to them quite frequently, and when we got there in person, the lady acted like a totally different person.
 

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Hi all, this is Mike, Tiffany's far lesser half. I don't do social media (no offense to this site - Tiffany loves it, so I love it too, through her), it just seems like a waste of time, to me. That said, I know she writes a ton of messages praising TTR and the members of this site, but is disproportionately full of praise and is seldom critical - so I'll take on that role, tonight. In our 15 years of LS living, we made our first enemy, tonight. Yes, enemy is a strong word but it is frighteningly accurate.

This chubby site member guy (yes, chubby is a bit harsh but that is about as insulting as I'll ever get, so I'll stand by it, since in my opinion, it warrants the anger and is true) has no respect for his wife or that which LS members represent.

This guy (Tiffany, rightfully, insists that I leave his name out) tried to force his wife into a sexual scenario against her will. He begged Tiffany to use force and aggression to get her to agree to her first LS or girl/girl encounter. Tiffany vehemently refused and showed her disgust, to which the guy got upset and continued to pressure and plea for the request to be fulfilled. He begged for Tiffany to (after a night of drinking) force herself on his wife and ultimately achieve his fantasy of seeing her "Ride Tiffany's face to orgasm". Needless to say, I removed both Tiffany and myself from the vicinity of this guy before we acted in a manner that would get us arrested or at least removed from TTR .

Look, I am no authority on "LS morés", but as a husband of a woman who is, perhaps, the most highly in demand woman at each venue we attend, I feel qualified to speak on the matter of "sharing your wife". To me, and any self respecting human being, your wife is a blessing. You are not entitled to have her or any woman. Each day, she chooses you and should be cherished. For us, everytime Tiffany or I engage with another couple or individual, we receive further affirmation that we are with our soul mate. At the end of each encounter, she chooses to return to a life with me. This means our marriage/relationship proved, yet again, that it is more powerful than any lust or object of lust presented. This man treated his wife like an object, like a possession. LS is about loving our women enough to make sacrifices and overcoming those sacrifices and turning them into gains. This chubby man is a disgrace, not only to CS, LS, and the institution of marriage, but to the God-given responsibility of being a man.

While I will not call this couple out by name, I will work tirelessly to warn others of his toxic and despicable outlook on LS living. If anyone wishes to know more, feel free to message me. We have no room in our lives, in our LS, for such disgusting behavior.
 

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This saddens us to hear this as we come in on the 27 and noticed in our three trips last year that more and more ladies were not going top less and was really hoping that it was going to swing in the other direction this year. Like what was said above is that the prices are really cheap right now and the US government keeps giving away more and more free money so a lot of the younger crowd and generation is coming for free. We also noticed that the LS crowd seemed to be less noticeable in our three trips last year. Think we may end up moving our membership to desire if this is what the new temptation is going to be about,
 
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Just finished lunch at Amorés.... the early crowd at or around the pool had 31 women. 29 with tops and 2 topless. More will show. Some women just need to see others doing it, but we are counting on the weekend to change things.
 

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Just finished lunch at Amorés.... the early crowd at or around the pool had 31 women. 29 with tops and 2 topless. More will show. Some women just need to see others doing it, but we are counting on the weekend to change things.
Wow r u serious
 

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April it was 50 50 at the pool, then maybe 60 40 topless once the liquid courage kicked in. There was the normal discussed look that women where topless at topless resort, ones that says there seafood taste fishy type. Seemed to be more group based socializing, if you wasn't in the group then move on. Traci felt uncomfortable for a bit the first theme night as she tries to wear nothing each night. Once you meet good people that goes away quickly. Hopefully this august will be better.
 

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Hi all, this is Mike, Tiffany's far lesser half. I don't do social media (no offense to this site - Tiffany loves it, so I love it too, through her), it just seems like a waste of time, to me. That said, I know she writes a ton of messages praising TTR and the members of this site, but is disproportionately full of praise and is seldom critical - so I'll take on that role, tonight. In our 15 years of LS living, we made our first enemy, tonight. Yes, enemy is a strong word but it is frighteningly accurate.

This chubby site member guy (yes, chubby is a bit harsh but that is about as insulting as I'll ever get, so I'll stand by it, since in my opinion, it warrants the anger and is true) has no respect for his wife or that which LS members represent.

This guy (Tiffany, rightfully, insists that I leave his name out) tried to force his wife into a sexual scenario against her will. He begged Tiffany to use force and aggression to get her to agree to her first LS or girl/girl encounter. Tiffany vehemently refused and showed her disgust, to which the guy got upset and continued to pressure and plea for the request to be fulfilled. He begged for Tiffany to (after a night of drinking) force herself on his wife and ultimately achieve his fantasy of seeing her "Ride Tiffany's face to orgasm". Needless to say, I removed both Tiffany and myself from the vicinity of this guy before we acted in a manner that would get us arrested or at least removed from TTR .

Look, I am no authority on "LS morés", but as a husband of a woman who is, perhaps, the most highly in demand woman at each venue we attend, I feel qualified to speak on the matter of "sharing your wife". To me, and any self respecting human being, your wife is a blessing. You are not entitled to have her or any woman. Each day, she chooses you and should be cherished. For us, everytime Tiffany or I engage with another couple or individual, we receive further affirmation that we are with our soul mate. At the end of each encounter, she chooses to return to a life with me. This means our marriage/relationship proved, yet again, that it is more powerful than any lust or object of lust presented. This man treated his wife like an object, like a possession. LS is about loving our women enough to make sacrifices and overcoming those sacrifices and turning them into gains. This chubby man is a disgrace, not only to CS, LS, and the institution of marriage, but to the God-given responsibility of being a man.

While I will not call this couple out by name, I will work tirelessly to warn others of his toxic and despicable outlook on LS living. If anyone wishes to know more, feel free to message me. We have no room in our lives, in our LS, for such disgusting behavior.

I should have let you guys borrow my knife ;)
 
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I should have let you guys borrow my knife ;)
Ultimately, all of this is the fault of Jandm0128. I blame them entirely. See, if they had come, I would have never noticed the lack of boobs and the shortage of LS couples. I would be too busy fucking these two until both our trips were over.

Due to an unfortunate misunderstanding, last year, I missed my opportunity and have spent the last year imagining these two in my bed. Seriously, a few porn scenes are recorded where I am having sex with other people but imagining them to be Jason and Maria. How many of you can say a pornstar was imagining having sex with me, in that scene where she squirted all over that girls face?

So, shout out to Jandm0128..... we have 4 days left. Get your fine asses down from New York, come to Cancun and fuck me, already!.... btw.....I like it in the ass. ;)

Too much??? Lol. Nah.
 
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It’s frustrating for sure, we stopped planning with people who claimed to be there at the same time, we just go with the flow now.

We've never made sexy plans before the trip. Schedules and sexy time are just a bad mix :p

That being said, this is our first time to TTR (after several trips to Desire ), and we'll be wearing as many of those white CS bracelets as we can fit.
 

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Ultimately, all of this is the fault of Jandm0128. I blame them entirely. See, if they had come, I would have never noticed the lack of boobs and the shortage of LS couples. I would be too busy fucking these two until both our trips were over.

Due to an unfortunate misunderstanding, last year, I missed my opportunity and have spent the last year imagining these two in my bed. Seriously, a few porn scenes are recorded where I am having sex with other people but imagining them to be Jason and Maria. How many of you can say a pornstar was imagining having sex with me, in that scene where she squirted all over that girls face?

So, shout out to Jandm0128..... we have 4 days left. Get your fine asses down from New York, come to Cancun and fuck me, already!.... btw.....I like it in the ass. ;)

Too much??? Lol. Nah.
I don’t think I can ever write these paragraphs while there
 
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Three single women and a couple tonight. The tried and true method always works. I go up to a man and whisper in his ear "If you want to see me fuck your wife just say the word". I let them work out the details while I dance in the most sexual way possible, on stage. ;) When in doubt, I whip them out.
 

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Ultimately, all of this is the fault of Jandm0128. I blame them entirely. See, if they had come, I would have never noticed the lack of boobs and the shortage of LS couples. I would be too busy fucking these two until both our trips were over.

Due to an unfortunate misunderstanding, last year, I missed my opportunity and have spent the last year imagining these two in my bed. Seriously, a few porn scenes are recorded where I am having sex with other people but imagining them to be Jason and Maria. How many of you can say a pornstar was imagining having sex with me, in that scene where she squirted all over that girls face?

So, shout out to Jandm0128..... we have 4 days left. Get your fine asses down from New York, come to Cancun and fuck me, already!.... btw.....I like it in the ass. ;)

Too much??? Lol. Nah.
Checking on flights RIGHT NOW!!!
 

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People not representing themselves on social as they actually are? Shocker.

A lot of the time, I think you'll find it's a husband who's wife has NO IDEA what he's trying to line up.

Ive known more than one guy who thought he could "pre-arrange" some LS shenanigan's, and talk his wife into it once they were in the moment. Didnt work out for him.

It may work for a few, but for the vast majority, you will end up with a REALLY pissed off wife.

As a side comment...TTR is changing. The demographics are getting younger and younger, and more single male groups. Also, it seems by observation that women <30 years old, dont seem nearly as excited about going topless as their "older" counterparts. Give me the "older" any day!!

What once was on our first trip 11 years ago, will never be again.
 

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People not representing themselves on social as they actually are? Shocker.

A lot of the time, I think you'll find it's a husband who's wife has NO IDEA what he's trying to line up.

Ive known more than one guy who thought he could "pre-arrange" some LS shenanigan's, and talk his wife into it once they were in the moment. Didnt work out for him.

It may work for a few, but for the vast majority, you will end up with a REALLY pissed off wife.

As a side comment...TTR is changing. The demographics are getting younger and younger, and more single male groups. Also, it seems by observation that women <30 years old, dont seem nearly as excited about going topless as their "older" counterparts. Give me the "older" any day!!

What once was on our first trip 11 years ago, will never be again.
Your probly right! But I have faith the place will weed out the ones that arnt making it pleasant now. And the originals will introduce new good product!
 
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We just changed our profile message on SLS to no more flakes… we get ya. It’s pathetic the way things have been going for us recently. So many cancelled plans and were almost positive they’ve all been flakes because they never reschedule. Hopefully this trip will break our LS dry steak.

We were disappointed in the resort in 2018 shortly after the renovation. We loved the pre Reno resort for the people and the renovation has definitely changed the crowd. We’re headed back in September to give it another go after two trips to Desire . We’ll see if the crowd has changed. I know my 33 year old wife has no problem getting them out and won’t even be packing tops. So, hopefully she’s not the minority.

Reading some other posts on Cancuncare and such it seems that the low prices and wedding season has drawn some of the single groups and such. Hopefully that’s done soon.
 

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Good morning everyone. As a couple we have lived a very vanilla lifestyle and since finding about TTR we have been wanting to book a trip since it sounds so liberating. Could it be that post COVID there are more couple like us, who are yearning to explore their sexuality a little more and take baby steps. Personally, I would feel more inclined to go topless or wear next to nothing if the majority of the crowd was like that. We also have talked about voyeurism with the right couple.
It sounds like things in the past were much better, hope we can experience some of that magic when we are able to book.
 

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Good morning everyone. As a couple we have lived a very vanilla lifestyle and since finding about TTR we have been wanting to book a trip since it sounds so liberating. Could it be that post COVID there are more couple like us, who are yearning to explore their sexuality a little more and take baby steps. Personally, I would feel more inclined to go topless or wear next to nothing if the majority of the crowd was like that. We also have talked about voyeurism with the right couple.
It sounds like things in the past were much better, hope we can experience some of that magic when we are able to book.
We were there. We had dabbled in some LS fun, but wanted to check out a resort. So we understand. But, we came to TTR our first trip and had the first day of a new high school look on our faces. We were welcomed in by some experienced people and it made it so much better. Within 2 min the Mrs had her top off and was already wearing a micro bottom. It was the people then that made the resort. Our last experience was that people don’t seem to want to be as open and friendly. It could have just been a bad week, but it also seems to be what a lot of these posts are saying.

we definitely encourage you to explore the LS at your pace. There truly is someone for everyone. (We’ll be there in September and you can gladly take your top off with Mandy) ha
 

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Good morning everyone. As a couple we have lived a very vanilla lifestyle and since finding about TTR we have been wanting to book a trip since it sounds so liberating. Could it be that post COVID there are more couple like us, who are yearning to explore their sexuality a little more and take baby steps. Personally, I would feel more inclined to go topless or wear next to nothing if the majority of the crowd was like that. We also have talked about voyeurism with the right couple.
It sounds like things in the past were much better, hope we can experience some of that magic when we are able to book.
People in the Lifestyle (those who live it and don't just say it) are great at remembering the pains of their own journey. We understand the initial fears of judgement, lack of acceptance, or simply not knowing what to do. We all started as vanilla and learned by watching others (from a distance). Of all the places we have been, TTR is the absolute best for those who are just starting out. There is a saying at TTR which is "Nobody knows you, nobody cares" (I made that a bit more PG, but you get the point). To be honest, that saying isn't always true. I am still judged heavily by a select group, upon every visit. What is different about TTR is that, as a whole, those who are judging are the outcasts. People have no tolerance for those kind of people, here. By the end of their trip, they have either learned to adopt the same "nobody cares" philosophy or they will be the lonely couple who are always at the quiet pool and never leave their chairs, at Bash. Simply put, TTR opens people's eyes.... .some, more slowly than others, but it changes people. If you wish to take baby steps, perfect. Just be as honest (unlike the people we were mentioning in this thread) as you have been, here, in your post. You're off to a great start. Go your own pace and never let others pressure you into anything you are not ready for.

As for Friday, here at TTR , the resort is PACKED and the Bash parties stay full until 2:30. Many tops still stay on but the average age has gone up, surprisingly. 35-45 seems to have come back strong (for this weekend, anyway). Maybe all hope is not lost. ;)
 
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I believe that the clientele that built the old Temptation have aged out and moved to other destinations. The new clientele is younger and has different ideas, they live on line with less interpersonal relationships.
 

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I believe that the clientele that built the old Temptation have aged out and moved to other destinations. The new clientele is younger and has different ideas, they live on line with less interpersonal relationships.
True. I’ve always followed this rule. 50% of all people that say they are in the LS really aren’t. The other 50% that’s left, half of that are new or over exaggerate themselves. So realistically when you think a place like ttr at full capacity of 800 maybe 200 are LS or say they are. Out of that your really left with maybe 50 people and that’s before personal taste etc kick in. The other 750 people are there to see boobs get drunk and see girls kiss.
The more I’ve read if you want a true LS experience it’s Hedo
 

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Glad it seems better. I definitely get what you’re saying and if memory serves, no plan Ive ever had for Temptations worked out. Now, We make no plans and let stuff flow along. Alot easier. Hope you are having a great time. We have two weeks til arrival.
 
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Well, as is the case any year, you see couples pretending, and this year is no exception. We arrived, today, for our 5th trip to TTR . I wish I could say I was surprised, but, saddened in more like it, to see fewer than 40% of the females were topless. The resort has never claimed to be a swinger resort but it is painfully evident that they are losing their appeal to the LS crowd. What pains me more is the dishonesty or (assuming the best) the wishful but unrealistic thinking by some (only some) "site members". Site member was in quotes because a person who owns an account but contributes little to nothing is not what most of us think of when we think of CS. Over the past 2 months, I have been bombarded by daily (literally over 100 per day) messages on here or on KIK from 13 different members who all claimed to be staying at ttr during this stay. Of those 13, I believe only 6 are really here.

What pains me the most is the two months of patience I showed to one particular couple that turned out to be as fraudulent and one could be. There are many great members on this site who go out of their way to help aspiring LS community members. We give of our freetime....our family time because of a memory we have of starting out. When this courtesy is abused, it hurts us all. If you ask someone for their time, please be respectful enough to be honest with them. This community can only succeed when we can count on one another.
We were there in March, and noticed a lot of college age people there. Girls wore their top and guys acted drunk and obnoxious. It was our 3rd time there. We did notice a lot more lifestyle action at night though. We are heading there labor day week so we will see...
 
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I haven’t read the entire page, however, a lot of it may be due to Canadians and UK couples not being able to attend or travel yet.

I can’t wait to come in November (From Canada). I also can’t wait to fuck my wife again on the balcony. Cheers all!!
 

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I had the fortune of meeting 3 site members, Alana & Malc (from England), CarlosyMaria07 (whom I have spoken to on another site), and Joseph13 (from CS), all of which are absolutely wonderful people. As long as people like these continue coming to TTR, it will always be a great place to visit. It was a pleasure to meet you all.
Thank you, i enjoyed meeting you guys and hopefully next time will be able to hangout longer
 

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Tiffany & Mike...So sad we didn’t overlap during your visit. We were there the week before you. It was difficult to find like minded peeps during our trip as well. We experienced the same lackluster crowd. I managed to seduce a few wives to make some great memories of our trip, but definitely was disappointed in general of the crowd. Lots of curious folks, the rare LS peeps, and tons of just vanilla voyeurs. Way too many young single men that had no control. Seemed to be way too many cameras freely recording, quite a few fights, some theft, and lots of rude guests. So many girls were wearing one piece swimsuits, not to mention very few topless participants. Certainly not the the TTR we are used to.
I did have one bad experience while we were there. It has taken me a bit to process it. For the first time in the LS, I had a male forcefully grab my wrist, in the middle of broad daylight by the pool. He picked me up sucked my b00b and put me down and then walked away. Apparently he thought that was ok. The entire time I was in shock and any effort to break his grips was not possible. I felt horrible and so shocked. I wish I would have thought to slap him or do something, but sadly I wasn’t thinking straight enough. I did not inform my hubby at the time, because I didn’t want him to do anything that would escalate things. I did tell him, once we got home though. I am ok, but my wrist and an area on my rib was bruised. Mentally I am fine, I just can’t believe that this assshole thought this was ok. My hubby is upset and feels terrible that he let me get out of his sight. It hurts him to know that I experienced that. Sure I’ve had men suck my breast in play and LS situations, but never had I been grabbed and had one force himself on me. Having experienced that and speaking to two other girls that had similar experiences the same week, I don’t feel like returning to TTR with its new strange clientele and not feeling secure. We will continue to visit Hedo, Desire , & others... but after several trips to TTR , it was not what it used to be. I hope that changes, but until I hear different, I just can’t.

Sorry to ramble, just wanted to validate that we also thought the vibe was so different and not the TTR we are all used to. We did make the best of our trip and trust me, we still had fun. It is what you make it!!! Hopefully TTR is hearing the latest round of complaints and finding a solution.
 

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Tiffany & Mike...So sad we didn’t overlap during your visit. We were there the week before you. It was difficult to find like minded peeps during our trip as well. We experienced the same lackluster crowd. I managed to seduce a few wives to make some great memories of our trip, but definitely was disappointed in general of the crowd. Lots of curious folks, the rare LS peeps, and tons of just vanilla voyeurs. Way too many young single men that had no control. Seemed to be way too many cameras freely recording, quite a few fights, some theft, and lots of rude guests. So many girls were wearing one piece swimsuits, not to mention very few topless participants. Certainly not the the TTR we are used to.
I did have one bad experience while we were there. It has taken me a bit to process it. For the first time in the LS, I had a male forcefully grab my wrist, in the middle of broad daylight by the pool. He picked me up sucked my b00b and put me down and then walked away. Apparently he thought that was ok. The entire time I was in shock and any effort to break his grips was not possible. I felt horrible and so shocked. I wish I would have thought to slap him or do something, but sadly I wasn’t thinking straight enough. I did not inform my hubby at the time, because I didn’t want him to do anything that would escalate things. I did tell him, once we got home though. I am ok, but my wrist and an area on my rib was bruised. Mentally I am fine, I just can’t believe that this assshole thought this was ok. My hubby is upset and feels terrible that he let me get out of his sight. It hurts him to know that I experienced that. Sure I’ve had men suck my breast in play and LS situations, but never had I been grabbed and had one force himself on me. Having experienced that and speaking to two other girls that had similar experiences the same week, I don’t feel like returning to TTR with its new strange clientele and not feeling secure. We will continue to visit Hedo, Desire , & others... but after several trips to TTR , it was not what it used to be. I hope that changes, but until I hear different, I just can’t.

Sorry to ramble, just wanted to validate that we also thought the vibe was so different and not the TTR we are all used to. We did make the best of our trip and trust me, we still had fun. It is what you make it!!! Hopefully TTR is hearing the latest round of complaints and finding a solution.
Sorry to hear you had a negative experience. I wish there was an easy test for "you must be this mature to enter".

We have a group going in November and these posts are popping up enough to cause some serious concern. We usually go to DRM, but there's (cool & respectful) singles in our group so that's not an option this go.

Are you members? Have you talked to your Premier rep? Carmina solved and helped make some policy changes for us last go. Matt got invited last second on a trip in 2019 and his name didn't make it on a friend's reso in time (Premier didn't pass the updated into to TTR ). His friend wasn't due to arrive until several hours later. Because of their mix-up they made him leave the resort: he couldn't even stay in the lobby until the named guest arrived. Some very terse emails later: "if my wife flew separately would you send HER away!?" he had a very quick reply from Premier and there's been some changes to how they handle reservation issues at the desk.

Your story deserves to be shared. LS or not consent is 100%, and I bet most of the staff capable of enforcing those rules would agree with you.

That being said, Desire is pretty awesome. And the staff are wonderful. We've never had a problem there, though Matt did once help a very drunk Playboy host back to his room after the guy had a little too much Tequila. Fun story :)
 
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