Sorry for being vague, let me clarify what I was asking. I have never been with a woman before, but I am very curious and that is why my husband would like for me to experience it. Since I have never been with a woman, I was curious if going down on a girl the first time was expected or if things come gradually. Thank you for the responses! I did have a good laugh at the “make him go down on a dude first” comment!
Funny how decisions in life make people feel nervous or apprehensive. IMO, don't do anything you don't feel like doing. You'll regret it. You can have interests in new things, and you will know when time is right or when the right person makes you fall over the edge. It's a funny feeling... and then the butterflies in your stomach will tell you that it's time for you to jump. You'll be scared, you'll be hesitant, but after you let yourself go, you'll be...wow!! What was that? When it feels right, don't fight it. This is when you'll find the right mix, or "the" woman you needed to enlighten you. You will then feel like it doesn't matter if you give, receive or reciprocate. You will feel whole! You will love it and won't wonder if you should or not. It'll be natural.
Anyways, this was my feeling!
We felt the same way you did, but even if it happened only like once or twice, when it does happen, it makes for months of conversations between us. Great turn-on evening talk!
PS. for the man... when you see you're wife going crazy for another woman for the first time...don't move, don't say a thing don't even breathe! Just let her enjoy herself..., watch... and learn! You're damn lucky if she lets you video tape the scene so you can both watch later!