You are worried and you are only in your late 50;s......We are a lot older than that and we are having a blast at TTR...This upcoming trip in Feb 4 will be our 9th trip...We ""were"" hesitant the first 2 trips but no more. We have friended people in their early 30'and met many superb couples in all age groups. Age is not a big deal here,. Make sure you dress for the theme night parties and you will have even more fun...If your wife likes attention she will love it as a good number of men, couples and single women seem to like the "mature" ..In actuality,,,we find the average age is about 45-50, so you are right in with the crowds.