Never participated but interested. Going on Boobcruise mid-Oct. Tips/Advice??

Gueroloco

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We have discussed the lifestyle and are super curious but have never participated. Planning on going on the boob cruise in October 2021 at least to see how it goes. We have discussed participation only while on vacation but have never done it. Any tips, advice, suggestions?? We don’t consider ourselves jealous people and have watched each other kiss and lightly fondle and be fondled but are afraid of what our reaction will actually be when it turns into something more. Our relationship is super strong, which is something I’ve heard couples say is necessary when discussing the lifestyle. It’s just that the first time is always scary I imagine for most people. So I would love to hear about your experiences, both negative and positive so that I know what we are getting into and can be better prepared. Thanks!
 

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The boobs cruise is a blast. My advice is, drink slowly, and bring water to drink between alcohols. Your glasses are constantly topped up, and in the hot sun, it's easy to get overdone. I speak from experience, lol.
We just got back from Temptation , and this was the first trip we did not go on the cruise. Primarily because of covid.
Yes, a strong, communicative relationship is a must. Talk over what you are each comfortable with. View your play partners as a tool to give your spouse pleasure. It can be a real turn-on to see your other half be the hot porn star, knowing they always are first attached to you. Keep everything in the open, talk always. Be 110% honest with each other. If you have any questions, our screen name is also a Gmail address. Have fun!
 

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We have discussed the lifestyle and are super curious but have never participated. Planning on going on the boob cruise in October 2021 at least to see how it goes. We have discussed participation only while on vacation but have never done it. Any tips, advice, suggestions?? We don’t consider ourselves jealous people and have watched each other kiss and lightly fondle and be fondled but are afraid of what our reaction will actually be when it turns into something more. Our relationship is super strong, which is something I’ve heard couples say is necessary when discussing the lifestyle. It’s just that the first time is always scary I imagine for most people. So I would love to hear about your experiences, both negative and positive so that I know what we are getting into and can be better prepared. Thanks!
Our advice would be to avoid your first experience being on the cruise for sure, firstly we love swinging, for us sharing that part of our lives with others and watching our partner both give and receive pleasure is amazing. But like most couples in this way of life we started slow, going along to a local club, playing in the same room as others but not swapping. After we were happy at that level it was to explore soft swinging, kissing, touching oral etc. Once we were sure that it was right for us both we then swapped and explored more.

The concern with the boob cruise being your first experience is that if it isn't for you, or something doesn't feel right, well you're on a boat. There's no where to slip off to and regroup your thoughts, if you get a little to tipsy and possibly go a little further than expected well that argument is going to be in the middle of a whole bunch of people.. now this won't likely happen, the boob cruise is awesome, full of friendly people, open minded individuals and an amazing crew.

Dry land for your first experiences is the way forward, that way if you both decided you needed a break or to discuss things a little you have somewhere to walk off to away from others and regroup.

When it comes to exploring while on vacation well communication between you both is key, talk about if first, what are you comfortable with? Set your boundaries and when you do meet someone you like the look of and it may go further be honest with them. Explain that you're new to the life style, that you want to experience things and both discussed it but being new you want to take things slow and only to a certain point. Most couples will appreciate the honesty and be receptive to this, after all they don't want to overstep your boundaries and cause a drama for you or them.

If you do explore with another couple, after you leave, get back to your room and go at it like rabbits! It's the best sex you'll have ;)
Then discuss things, did you enjoy it, was it comfortable watching each other and was there any jealousy, make sure it was right for you both and then discuss if you want to try exploring more.

Honestly you'll have an amazing time if it's right for you, but if you try it and there's any doubt then stop it there, you're relationship is priority number 1.

L&A xx
 

Gueroloco

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The boobs cruise is a blast. My advice is, drink slowly, and bring water to drink between alcohols. Your glasses are constantly topped up, and in the hot sun, it's easy to get overdone. I speak from experience, lol.
We just got back from Temptation , and this was the first trip we did not go on the cruise. Primarily because of covid.
Yes, a strong, communicative relationship is a must. Talk over what you are each comfortable with. View your play partners as a tool to give your spouse pleasure. It can be a real turn-on to see your other half be the hot porn star, knowing they always are first attached to you. Keep everything in the open, talk always. Be 110% honest with each other. If you have any questions, our screen name is also a Gmail address. Have fun!
Thank you so much! I appreciate the insight and advice. Especially about the drinking slowly and taking water. I will definitely stay in touch and let you guys know how it goes…
 

Gueroloco

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Our advice would be to avoid your first experience being on the cruise for sure, firstly we love swinging, for us sharing that part of our lives with others and watching our partner both give and receive pleasure is amazing. But like most couples in this way of life we started slow, going along to a local club, playing in the same room as others but not swapping. After we were happy at that level it was to explore soft swinging, kissing, touching oral etc. Once we were sure that it was right for us both we then swapped and explored more.

The concern with the boob cruise being your first experience is that if it isn't for you, or something doesn't feel right, well you're on a boat. There's no where to slip off to and regroup your thoughts, if you get a little to tipsy and possibly go a little further than expected well that argument is going to be in the middle of a whole bunch of people.. now this won't likely happen, the boob cruise is awesome, full of friendly people, open minded individuals and an amazing crew.

Dry land for your first experiences is the way forward, that way if you both decided you needed a break or to discuss things a little you have somewhere to walk off to away from others and regroup.

When it comes to exploring while on vacation well communication between you both is key, talk about if first, what are you comfortable with? Set your boundaries and when you do meet someone you like the look of and it may go further be honest with them. Explain that you're new to the life style, that you want to experience things and both discussed it but being new you want to take things slow and only to a certain point. Most couples will appreciate the honesty and be receptive to this, after all they don't want to overstep your boundaries and cause a drama for you or them.

If you do explore with another couple, after you leave, get back to your room and go at it like rabbits! It's the best sex you'll have ;)
Then discuss things, did you enjoy it, was it comfortable watching each other and was there any jealousy, make sure it was right for you both and then discuss if you want to try exploring more.

Honestly you'll have an amazing time if it's right for you, but if you try it and there's any doubt then stop it there, you're relationship is priority number 1.

L&A xx
Your response was super helpful. Especially about the baby steps you suggested that we take. I think that is the way we are going to go. And I hadn’t thought about being stuck on the cruise, in the middle of the ocean, if something goes wrong. Thank you very much!
 
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When are you going on the boobs cruise? We'll be on the 15th on our anniversary.
 
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