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MIke4Chat59

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I think I am average don't think I have mesured never had any complaint as for the wife she has had bigger and smaller as long as a guy takes his time and uses it well she has a good time. But it has to be hard limp dosent get it for her. I like to do oral and touch untill the lady wants it bad.
I am same 7" but a bit thicker than average too I guess. Wife loves my 7 inch cock and I am very oral as well. But it would be kind of hot to see her take a 9 or 10" thicker cock. But she is not a size queen and loves her clit (oral ) orgasm over fucking. But she cums pretty good to once you get her going! LOL
 

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My hubby is very well endowed. Over 7 and very thick. He can hurt me sometimes and on 1 then 1 occasions other couples we play with have mentioned it. That being said we have playmates that arent near as endowed as him but I still VERY VERY much enjoy sex with then. It's not necessarily about the size but knowing what to do to please a women.
 

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Ok, I have a question because I haven't seen that many limp dicks. My husband has a very big cock (8") but when it's limp, it is really small. I'm talking maybe 2". After all these years I'm still amazed how that little thing can turn into a monster! Because of this, he doesn't want to go to a nude resort. He says he would be embarrassed with his little limp dick and he doesn't want to walk around with a boner either. He says half erect is like walking a tightrope. Anyone else have this issue?
Tell him to go I am also at times very small soft and as much as 2 inches. But there are other times I hang 4 to 5 inches soft depending on the weather (hot vs. Cold). But if you are at a nude resort it more than likely warm. Just hang out, the heck with them you and your lady know you grow to 8 inches. I only grow to 7 inches but almost 6 in girth. Yes I would love to have 8 to 10 inches hang 6 to 7 soft. But I got what I got and I ain't got no more. But ladies, I will bring it for sure! Enjoy the resorts and have fun!
 

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Personally, I don't like super large dicks. Average is just fine for me! My vagina is only about 5 inches deep and the g-spot is only in about a couple inches. There's an quite a few of above average cocks in this thread. If 7" or more happens in only 1% of men... makes me wonder what rulers they are using. Maybe metric?? hehehe My man does fantasize about me being with other men with larger cocks. Me, my favorite fantasy is just being watched. Our first trip to TTR was in September of 2013. Best vacation of my life! Making it back in May of 2015 for another round! :)
Yeah considering 60-70% is within 5-6in and only 1-2% are bigger than 7in it’s amazing how everybody on the internet is a 7-8-9in. My guess is either we’re dealing with a statistical improbability or people don’t know how to measure which would be base of shaft to the tip without pushing in or pulling out.

We aren’t speaking for everybody as everybody has their own taste but in general we believe it’s more with what you do with it and long as you fall somewhere in the average spectrum. Much like big tits they are great to look at but if you fuck like a turtle doesn’t matter much. Same in my opinion is pussy they are all about the same it’s what you do with it and your personality
 
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Ok, I have a question because I haven't seen that many limp dicks. My husband has a very big cock (8") but when it's limp, it is really small. I'm talking maybe 2". After all these years I'm still amazed how that little thing can turn into a monster! Because of this, he doesn't want to go to a nude resort. He says he would be embarrassed with his little limp dick and he doesn't want to walk around with a boner either. He says half erect is like walking a tightrope. Anyone else have this issue?
Well I get how he feels. I’m average but when limp is very small like 2in as well. Sometimes I can lucky and be in that half arousal state where it looks good but the problem is keeping it like that and the fact their is virtually no control over it. Maybe as time goes by but like your husband that’s one reason why the full nude resort thing doesn’t interest me or us.
 

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Ladies,you are all telling lies because you don't want to hurt your boyfriend,husband who are lacking in the length and girth,we men know that.If it didn't matter why do our own wives want us white husbands to go on the swingers sites found well endowed men to fuck them,specially the famous(BBC).There are women who married guys because they just wanted to guarantee their own safety in the life,meaning he can't give me satisfaction in bed,but I got good life,driving Mercedes,Bmw,Porsche travel wherever whenever she wants and the cock She will get it somewhere else who knows her ex with 9"1/2 that in vanilla lifestyle.Well,there are many reasons many couples decided to get in swinger lifestyle:what if he/she want to fuck other guys/girls,do you(man) know how to lay the pipe to deliver the goods?Does she knows how to suck a cock,feels satisfied with one and done?Dude you lacking in length and girth, and her previous boyfriend/husband was well endowed who could fill her up,making her have orgasms and squirt like crazy,showing at work all smiley,leaving her coworkers wondering the sudden change in personality.Yes,someone just rocked her world.Most of us,start feeding our wives, with the desire to watch her fuck,other man.Even,sometimes the wives,don't want to, but we insist until they get onboard and what started as swingers, now we just want a stunt cock for her(single guy) preferably BBC on the sites to come over to ravage and fill her up in 1 1/2 or 2 hours fucking session,while you just sit on the chair with your dick on your hand jerking off.From swingers,now the dynamic changed,cockold and hotwife.If size of penis doesn't matter,then take your wife to a sex shop to buy her dildo,guess which one she's going for?A 12" black dildo,it's not a joke.Let me give you other examples of the size really matters:I was listening or listened few swingers podcasts like swinger diaries episode 36,but Penn is the one every time they finish playing(fuck) with other couple,asking Page if the other guy had bigger cock than him.That's shame on him.we all have seen him in the playing rooms.The funny one is the,that couple next door podcast episode 30 first MFM,listen carefully dudes.Our wives don't want say it,because they know it will kill our confidence.For the record:penis come in a different size and shapes,so do vulvas.There' one thing we as human being forget,compatibility.Sometimes there is mismatch in sex drive,stamina and sizes,that's where things got complicated.Average penis size:3"1/2 flaccid 5" erect.Above average 6"-7". Big penises 8"-11". Abnormal 12"-above.
All men should remember our wives have vulvas and they make the rules.There will be no swinging without women.
Vambana.
Yeah I don’t think you quite understand the metrics or variables involved with LS. People fantasize and yes some people have added the cheating metric to their LS fantasy but it’s just fantasy and isn’t true fantasy.
My wife for example isn’t interested in black men and finds huge cocks gross also again I think your over generalizing
 

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I will give you an honest observation from my experience after 19 visits to TTR and several other resorts. This may make me sound like a whore (ok, I am, but only while on vacation!) but after being with well over 50 guys at TTR , I can honestly say that I have only seen 1 that was below average size. On the other hand, guys that I have been with at other resorts are about 50/50 above or below average. (I haven't been to Hedonism, but I would be willing to bet that the vast majority of the guys there are larger than average too.)

Now, I'll play amateur phychiatrist. As you probably know, most people at TTR are different than people you will meet at other resorts. They tend to be outgoing, flirty, confident and fun to be around, or at least that would describe the guys I have gotten to "know" there. Of course, guys have two heads and there are a lot of jokes that sometimes the little head thinks for the big head. Well, I think that may be true, in a way. Could it be that guys who are well endowed develop some personality traits that encourage more confidence because of the size of their cock? If so, maybe that gives them a higher propensity to go to a place like TTR or Hedonism. On the other hand, it's "safer" to go to a place like Breathless where there's a good chance to have fun but not much of a chance that something will actually happen sexually. (I was at Breathless for 5 nights when TTR was closed, was with 6 guys and 5 were significantly below average size.)

Sam and I have talked about this during some of our long hot tub conversations and he thinks I may be onto something.

What do you think? Any similar observations?

Sindy
 
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I will give you an honest observation from my experience after 19 visits to TTR and several other resorts. This may make me sound like a whore (ok, I am, but only while on vacation!) but after being with well over 50 guys at TTR , I can honestly say that I have only seen 1 that was below average size. On the other hand, guys that I have been with at other resorts are about 50/50 above or below average. (I haven't been to Hedonism, but I would be willing to bet that the vast majority of the guys there are larger than average too.)

Now, I'll play amateur phychiatrist. As you probably know, most people at TTR are different than people you will meet at other resorts. They tend to be outgoing, flirty, confident and fun to be around, or at least that would describe the guys I have gotten to "know" there. Of course, guys have two heads and there are a lot of jokes that sometimes the little head thinks for the big head. Well, I think that may be true, in a way. Could it be that guys who are well endowed develop some personality traits that encourage more confidence because of the size of their cock? If so, maybe that gives them a higher propensity to go to a place like TTR or Hedonism. On the other hand, it's "safer" to go to a place like Breathless where there's a good chance to have fun but not much of a chance that something will actually happen sexually. (I was at Breathless for 5 nights when TTR was closed, was with 6 guys and 5 were significantly below average size.)

Sam and I have talked about this during some of our long hot tub conversations and he thinks I may be onto something.

What do you think? Any similar observations?

Sindy
You could be onto something who knows. If your using yourself as the experimenter then you have to define average which is 5.5in. 95% or more men are below 6.3in. Also you would have to measure eye balling you could easily be off by an inch or so as well. You say 50/50 are above and below average but none are average that would be rare . Remember a dollar bill is 6in

But your theory could be right women and men that look better have bigger muscles, tits, etc usually find better jobs etc. IMO I don’t think guys with big dicks have a bigger propensity for ttr . You may be lucky to find 2-3 every trip over 20 years but you would never find 50 on one trip. Reality is 95% of those dicks in the pool are 6in or less so I guess maybe your getting lucky.
 

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You could be onto something who knows. If your using yourself as the experimenter then you have to define average which is 5.5in. 95% or more men are below 6.3in. Also you would have to measure eye balling you could easily be off by an inch or so as well. You say 50/50 are above and below average but none are average that would be rare . Remember a dollar bill is 6in

But your theory could be right women and men that look better have bigger muscles, tits, etc usually find better jobs etc. IMO I don’t think guys with big dicks have a bigger propensity for ttr. You may be lucky to find 2-3 every trip over 20 years but you would never find 50 on one trip. Reality is 95% of those dicks in the pool are 6in or less so I guess maybe your getting lucky.
I've never pulled out a dollar bill to measure, but when I can wrap both hands around it and still get a mouthful.....
 

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I've never pulled out a dollar bill to measure, but when I can wrap both hands around it and still get a mouthful.....
Lol a well a fistful definitely means something I guess. Don’t take my comment the wrong way just trying to figure out out this science experiment lol.

Part of your experiment would also have to be is it blind. Are their pre qualifiers in terms of do you have knowledge before hand by word of mouth or did you check first. Either way I think I think it’s probably more you then reaility. You like what you like and maybe there’s cues either advertly or inadvertly you pick up on. It’s really hard to break statistical averages specially considering the research done on this.
 

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Lol a well a fistful definitely means something I guess. Don’t take my comment the wrong way just trying to figure out out this science experiment lol.

Part of your experiment would also have to be is it blind. Are their pre qualifiers in terms of do you have knowledge before hand by word of mouth or did you check first. Either way I think I think it’s probably more you then reaility. You like what you like and maybe there’s cues either advertly or inadvertly you pick up on. It’s really hard to break statistical averages specially considering the research done on this.
I've had a blindfold on a few times. Does that count?
 

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I will give you an honest observation from my experience after 19 visits to TTR and several other resorts. This may make me sound like a whore (ok, I am, but only while on vacation!) but after being with well over 50 guys at TTR , I can honestly say that I have only seen 1 that was below average size. On the other hand, guys that I have been with at other resorts are about 50/50 above or below average. (I haven't been to Hedonism, but I would be willing to bet that the vast majority of the guys there are larger than average too.)

Now, I'll play amateur phychiatrist. As you probably know, most people at TTR are different than people you will meet at other resorts. They tend to be outgoing, flirty, confident and fun to be around, or at least that would describe the guys I have gotten to "know" there. Of course, guys have two heads and there are a lot of jokes that sometimes the little head thinks for the big head. Well, I think that may be true, in a way. Could it be that guys who are well endowed develop some personality traits that encourage more confidence because of the size of their cock? If so, maybe that gives them a higher propensity to go to a place like TTR or Hedonism. On the other hand, it's "safer" to go to a place like Breathless where there's a good chance to have fun but not much of a chance that something will actually happen sexually. (I was at Breathless for 5 nights when TTR was closed, was with 6 guys and 5 were significantly below average size.)

Sam and I have talked about this during some of our long hot tub conversations and he thinks I may be onto something.

What do you think? Any similar observations?

Sindy
It's called big dick energy
 

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I’m going to be the rebel here and give my honest opinion. Size does matter. My husband is 9 and THICK and I admit I’m crazy spoiled in that way. But anything less than 6.5 and thick sadly will not get me there, despite other skills. I will have fun regardless but no climax. I’m not stretched out, it’s just a matter of my anatomy is.
 

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Yeah considering 60-70% is within 5-6in and only 1-2% are bigger than 7in it’s amazing how everybody on the internet is a 7-8-9in. My guess is either we’re dealing with a statistical improbability or people don’t know how to measure which would be base of shaft to the tip without pushing in or pulling out.

We aren’t speaking for everybody as everybody has their own taste but in general we believe it’s more with what you do with it and long as you fall somewhere in the average spectrum. Much like big tits they are great to look at but if you fuck like a turtle doesn’t matter much. Same in my opinion is pussy they are all about the same it’s what you do with it and your personality
 

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I agree Soldier, that is why I post my photo. I am right at that 7 inch mark and a bit thicker than average. Love to have more but unless that gal is a total size queen they will know I have been there and they have enjoyed!
 

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I agree Soldier, that is why I post my photo. I am right at that 7 inch mark and a bit thicker than average. Love to have more but unless that gal is a total size queen they will know I have been there and they have enjoyed!
Yeah to each their own. I’m not a women so I don’t really know or I do care . My only point is 95% is less than 7 and 60-70% are at average. So statistically it’s very small but given there are 150 million men in this country there are quite a few big foots running around. It’s just statistically improbable that one person is finding a pot of gold randomly at every turn but is possible.
 
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I think that every woman is going to have their own opinion for their own reasons!

For myself, I personally enjoy different sizes for different reasons :). I have two boyfriends, and one is larger than the other. Not only do I love both individually, but their difference in sizes and shape make DV & DP much easier and much less painful than it may be otherwise!

I mean, there’s probably an obvious size too small & size too large that would be too little or too much for me, but from the experiences I’ve had, and women I’ve talked to, the opinion of “if size matters” seems to be a personal preference/opinion!

For me, personally, the mental & physical connection (or lack-there-of) I have with a guy is a MUCH more telling factor of whether or not I will have a good time :).
 

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I wonder if men get intimidated when they are swinging and come across with another couple and the man is endowed. Are you confident you're able to satisfy the other person???
My husband is endowed and we have ran across the situation of the other man not being big. I don't have a problem with size but you must have stamina and please in other ways.

To women do size, pleasure or both matter?
Maxxum magazine did a pole years ago, like 2012....and asked 1000 women what's the best/ultimate/perfect size they prefer....7 " long 6 " around....so 7x6...was the winner...hmmm and of course Everything in magazines are true
 

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Maxxum magazine did a pole years ago, like 2012....and asked 1000 women what's the best/ultimate/perfect size they prefer....7 " long 6 " around....so 7x6...was the winner...hmmm and of course Everything in magazines are true
Just so happens mine is 7x6....what's the chances
 

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I actually prefer a good 5”... it hits my GSpot just right... my man is much larger... he’s over 9” but I take it and have adapted to the size of his package well. But he’s also incredible with four play so I’m hype af by the time we get to penetration
 

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Nice try Bignath1985. What total Bullshit. Here is the original pic that Bignath1985 stole from a scam penile enlargement website called xx.excellentlover.com


There is no need to steal people's pics, on this site. We have no problem with people hiding their true identity by not posting a picture. This is misleading to the members of the site and dishonest to the people who's identity you are stealing. Just be you. No need to pretend. We like all shapes and sizes.
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I hope Bambi removes this douche-bag from this site. I wish there was a way to block people on here, as we've had a couple dudes we found to be fake, too. Good job ElliotandMichelle!

I've already sent him a message asking him to remove all pics that are not of him. If he does not then I'll forward this to Steve as I can not Ban or remove people to this site.
 
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