Trying to arrange wife's 1st time, Cancun Jan 2022

Stagmagick

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Hi. I shared my fantasy of sharing my wife with either another man, woman or couple...all last year. My wife has been open to it and we've done some DP play with toys, but she does not initiate any of it. We have 2 boys living at home so I think that also inhibits her. We are going to be on vacation in Cancun the first 2 weeks of January 2022 for Dead and Company's Playing in the Sand. She said that this may be the time for us to fullfil my fantasy. Any suggestions/advice as to how to best go about arranging something like this or finding other single males, single females, or couples in the area open to meet and possibly play? Thanks in advance!
 

soldier4402

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I wouldn’t pre set up anything on vacation like this for a first time kind of a deal. If anything if you want to get contacts going and keep it open ended maybe. Being the first time I think you would be better off going in without any obligations.
Best thing you can do is ensure you are on the same page with your spouse. Guys want this more than women at least initially and she may say ok after some booze or in the moment. But I would sit down and get some straight answers and understand everybody’s limits.
Beyond that once you get there look and act the part and talk to people and at some point you will have to take a risk
 

Stagmagick

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I wouldn’t pre set up anything on vacation like this for a first time kind of a deal. If anything if you want to get contacts going and keep it open ended maybe. Being the first time I think you would be better off going in without any obligations.
Best thing you can do is ensure you are on the same page with your spouse. Guys want this more than women at least initially and she may say ok after some booze or in the moment. But I would sit down and get some straight answers and understand everybody’s limits.
Beyond that once you get there look and act the part and talk to people and at some point you will have to take a risk
Makes sense. Thanks for the feedback
 
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A&A-2021

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Hello guys
We are visitting Cancun next week when you guys would be going?
 
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